Perfection and perspective

“Frustration and Love can’t exist in the same place at the same time, so get real and start doing what you would rather be doing in life. Love your life. All of it. Even the heavy shit that happened to you when you were 8. All of it was and IS perfect.” Jason Mraz


Everyday I run into myriads of people. I enjoy so many meetings. Life is great. On occasion I run into someone who has not found themselves. When I say this I refer to finding our self inside us. If you can’t answer the question, “Who am I?” or you don’t have a dream, maybe the moment has come  to look inward. 

There was a time in my life where I was not happy. Life was hard and stressful. It seemed purposeless. I was very frustrated with the fact that I was putting a lot of energy into work and seemed to be getting nowhere and all that stress sent all my creativity out the window. Expectations of how we should be can be the most crippling thoughts we can have. How many people don’t even begin? How many people line up their grocery list of excuses before they even start. Jack Canfield refers to our difficult pasts as the “So what.” Most people have some crappy thing clouding up their view. So what? So what are you going to do now? Remember the suffering on the path to evolution? Well you don’t actually get to evolve unless you are willing to move past it. As long as you are stuck in drama, in victimland or wallowing in self pity because your best years are behind you, there is no way you are going to clear the air enough to get a good view of the sun. Let go and let opportunity show you a new road.

So to Jason’s apt words I would add, “Love yourself. You are enough.”

Namaste!

 

Bianca

 

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Bianca Pittoors & Marc Langis are Bianca Basso. Creators of original music with a vintage flavor, they are distinctive in their contemporary style.

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