and we'll all live happily ever after.

“Some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity.” -Gilda Radner

Dear Gilda! I will always be a fan. She is right you know. What Gilda called Delicious Ambiguity I call mystery. That unknown quality of life is what makes it delicious.

Think of it this way. If we knew everything it would take and what we would have to do to succeed, maybe we would not have the courage to begin. I don’t think too many women out there, when making a baby, were thinking about how it would have to come out. But once you’re committed, something else kicks in. We learn as we go, to trust the process. We are writing our story as we live it. We don’t know about the guy we are going to meet at the Christmas party and about that one person who is going to say, “Wow this is great! This is what I’m going to do for you.” Or about the one who comes along while your sweeping up the ruins of your tragic life and decides to help you rebuild it.

The not knowing part is the best part of the story. We just have to learn to love it while we are in it and let our story unfold with grace.

 

Namaste!

 

Bianca

 

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Bianca Pittoors & Marc Langis are Bianca Basso. Creators of original music with a vintage flavor, they are distinctive in their contemporary style.

 

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