“What You Make Of Your Life Is Up To You. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.”
Yup. The hard core truth of it. Right there on the page. Your life is your responsibility. Now, depending on how you want to look at it, that can be either good, or not.
In my case, being a glass half full kind of girl, I see it as very good. After all, when I think of things this way I feel VERY powerful. I remember being a younger woman and having a friend who told me in her infinite wisdom, “You don’t have the right to complain about something you do nothing to change.” She may have been fed up with me whining about something (old me) when she said it but let’s move on… The truth of the matter is that when we take responsibility for our feelings and reactions we have the power to change them. What power is there in recycling bad feelings? Answer: NONE! If you can not change what has happened, you must learn from it. That is all that is left to do. And that is entirely up to you. I would be happy to speed up the learning process but as powerful as I may feel, I am not omnipotent. Too bad, I know.
So we end with more good news. You can do it for yourself. After all, life is for living. How you live it, is all up to you.
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Bianca Pittoors & Marc Langis are Bianca Basso. Creators of original music with a vintage flavor, they are distinctive in their contemporary style.